Yesterday morning my mom asked my sister if we would hate her if she left our dad. We were definitely blind sighted by it. We know they've had their problems and that my dad isn't the easiest person to get along with, but leaving him?? She packed her things last night and now we don't even know where she is. My sister and I are pretty much on suicide watch with dad. At this point, even if she decided to come back today, I don't know if I would ever feel the same way about her. She's broken us. And I don't think I can ever forgive her. And to answer her quesiton, I told her that I can't promise that I wouldn't hate her. I can't promise that if my dad kills himself tomorrow that I would ever talk to her again or bring my kids for visits. I didn't think that at 27 that something like this would affect me so much. I was always closest with my mom and now I'm just lost.